To be curvy
To be skinny
To be athletic
To be none of the above, but some in-between place
To be gay
To be straight
To have no interest in having a relationship
To have stretch marks
To have a mono-brow, or mini tash, or any other facial or bodily hair
To shave- it doesn't make you less of a feminist, I promise
To love food
To hate drinking
To get things wrong
To eat a bagel with peanut butter, banana, and chocolate chips. Or smoked salmon and cream cheese. Or whatever else you would put on it.
To have a slightly odd obsession with Paul Hollywood and Mary Berry
To hate cardio and love weights
To love cardio and hate weights
To hate both
To miss the occasional workout
To mess up something at work
To mess up something at home (as long as you're sorry)
To feel like you compare yourself to people in magazines: we all do it, don't beat yourself up, but know that you are just as beautiful as them. And that comparison is the thief of joy.
To compare yourself to no one, and have reached your own little happy place
To be introverted
To be extroverted
To not have a "squat arse" as I call it
To have spots
To have scars
To love makeup
To never wear makeup
To not want to eat brownies containing spirulina/flaxmeal/sweet potato/ beans- but a proper brownie with butter and sugar and lots of gooey-ness
To eat a salad
To sometimes feel sad
To be happy
To sleep in
To cancel plans and spend time with you
To sing along with Disney movies
To not identify with any of the above things